The Better Way: Blessed are Those who Mourn

And seeing the multitudes, he went up into a mountain: and when he was set, his disciples came unto him: And he opened his mouth, and taught them, saying…Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5: 1-2, 4


This really seems like a contradiction. How can we be happy or blessed when we mourn? Once again we must set aside the world’s way of looking at things and see things from God’s perspective.

The modern church emphasizes celebration, joy, happiness and a fun time in God’s presence. Yet the Bible does not teach anything like that. Those who mourn are blessed not those who are happy.

The mourning Jesus spoke about in the Sermon on the Mount is not mourning over the loss of a loved one, or the loss of a prized possession – it is a spiritual mourning over spiritual matters. Neither is this a call to be morose, miserable or pessimistic. This kind of mourning is very deep and very real but it is entirely different to the world’s kind of sorrow that produces death – godly mourning leads to life (2Corinthians 7:10).

A number of artists have tried to create images of the “laughing Jesus” and the Crystal Cathedral boasts a number of these effigies. Yet the Bible does not paint such a picture of Jesus. He is rather shown as A Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief” (Isaiah 53:3). The gospel writers record a number of times when Jesus wept, yet they do not mention one time when Jesus laughed. I am sure He had a sense of humor and occasionally laughed but with the weight of the world’s sin soon to be placed on Him, the cross before Him and a nation which rejected and misunderstood His message, there was not much to laugh about and a lot to be sorrowful about.

When we look at the accounts of Paul’s life as well as his writings, we also do not find a happy character, but a man who is weighed down by his responsibilities and his own shortcomings (Romans 7:18). Paul does not teach a happy-go-lucky form of Christianity but rather, calls on all to be sober-minded (1Thessalonians 5:6,8; 1Timothy 3:2,11; Titus 2:6 etc)

Mourning flows from the previous beatitude – blessed are the poor in spirit. When we realize our spiritual need and poverty, we will find much reason to mourn. Only those who have not honestly examined themselves in the light of God’s Word and His holy requirements can find reason not to mourn. It is easy to feel good about ourselves until we see ourselves the way God sees us or until we truly see Him. Once that reality dawns we can only respond with Isaiah “Woe is me, for I am undone! Because I am a man of unclean lips, And I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips” (Isaiah 6:5).

No one who has stopped to see how his actions and words hurt others or who have given thought to how much his disobedience and sin pains the heart of God can go about feeling happy within himself. Only those who are ignorant of their frequent and on-going failings, or who have a misguided understanding of God’s grace, can pass through life happy with themselves.

Mourning is also a result of understanding how mankind continues to abuse God’s grace. Jesus wept (and continues to do so) over Israel who rejected God’s overtures and who killed His prophets. I believe He still weeps over the state of the churches and the carnal state of the believers and their leaders. His heart is broken over continued divisions, bickering and arguing amongst “Christians” and especially, over the blind leaders who lead His people astray. I do not think that He finds much to rejoice over when He looks at the present state of the church. Should we not be mourning with Him over a church that prefers wallowing in the mud to walking with Him in white and who prefers to return to its vomit than to feast on the bread of heaven?

Yes, we rejoice over the one sinner who comes to repentance, but we weep, sorrow and mourn over a world that actively and willingly chooses to go to hell.

If watching the news or reading the newspaper does not cause you to cry out to God “how long more Lord?” then you have sunk to a lower level than Lot who at least was vexed over the sins of Sodom and Gomorrah!

Seeing the unrighteousness of men, judges and churches has to cause us deep pain. As we daily witness the abuse of power, especially by so-called leaders in churches who use their positions to victimize the weak and disenfranchised, we should be weeping before the Lord for justice to come. Daily, we are confronted by church leaders who use their positions to feed their egos, pockets and lust for sex, money and power.

Do you honestly think Jesus is amused by all this? I don’t think so and neither should we be, but we should rather be mourning.

So how can we be blessed when we are beset within and without with so much gloom and darkness?

The text says “For they shall be comforted”. We will be comforted when we finally are transformed fully into His image! When sin in our own lives is finally vanquished and His glorious nature comes forth in us sorrow will turn to joy and mourning to rejoicing.

We will be comforted when finally, “The kingdoms of this world have become the kingdoms of our Lord and of His Christ” (Revelation 11:15) and when “Jesus shall reign where’er the sun does his successive journeys run”.

We will be comforted when He finally “present(s) her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish” (Ephesians 5:27).

Yes, on that glorious day there will be rejoicing, celebration and eternal happiness as we are comforted for ever in the arms of our Saviour.

“And I heard a loud voice from heaven saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God. “And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away” (Revelation 21:3,4)

By Anton Bosch

anton bosch ministries

6 comments on “The Better Way: Blessed are Those who Mourn

  1. I think about what eternity must be like all the time. The one thing that just always comes back to be is I will finally stop grieving my God. I am so tired of being a sinner.

    I can’t tell you how may times I have asked God to take away my free will. I know it’s not the way things work…but I am so tired of doing things I shouldn’t do and not doing the things I should. I am wretched! So of course I pray that God will replace my will with His will…but it would just be so much easier if I could just be a robot and not have my will at all!

  2. I had a couple years where I felt so heavy and I felt so much better when I was reminded it was scriptural: “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Lament and mourn and weep! Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” James 4:8-10

    The only part I disagree with in this article is: “…a world that actively and willingly chooses to go to hell.” I don’t agree with that statement since the Bible says God calls and draws (John 6:44) — so I don’t think it is appropiate to say all actively and willingly choose death. To me, that is part of the mourning for the world in that most are blind and deceived. “…But evil men and impostors will grow worse and worse, deceiving and being deceived.” 2 Tim. 3:13

  3. One definition of “blessed” that seems to fit best in this passage is “approved by God”. Since I agree with dead men that our greatest aim is to glorify God, this definition makes better sense to me than “happy”.

  4. The only part I disagree with in this article is: “…a world that actively and willingly chooses to go to hell.” I don’t agree with that statement since the Bible says God calls and draws (John 6:44) — so I don’t think it is appropiate to say all actively and willingly choose death. To me, that is part of the mourning for the world in that most are blind and deceived. “

    When reading that particular statement; “…a world that actively and willingly chooses to go to hell.” what came to me are those i know personally who will tell you they know there is a God and they are lost, but say they don’t care Heather…they want to live their lives the way ‘they’ want to.

    Sadly i know people [people i love] who are just like that. I mourn deeply for each one of them.

    Others once walked with Jesus but willingly turned away in rebellion…

    The Scripture in Romans 1 also came to me:

    18For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;

    19Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.

    20For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:

    21Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.

    22Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools..

  5. Manfred,

    I like the amplified bible’s extended definition also:

    4Blessed and enviably happy [with a happiness produced by the experience of God’s favor and especially conditioned by the revelation of His matchless grace] are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted! link

  6. When we look at the state of the human race how can your heart not break eveytime i see or listen to the new move!!!! super saints ect. my heart breaks we all need one another under Christ fitted together in one accord inHim, His love for humans is pass our understanding yes we may try but, I know how my heart grieves mornes so Im very sure Christ is not is a laughing state of mind; you are 100% right what would he have to laugh about while on the earth, when he was carrying the sins of the world on His shoulders………………………and that is what the world puts out there about him, I had that scripture so wrong thank you……….

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