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The Goal and Purposes of the Dark Night of the Spirit


This is another post in the series by Nancy Missler on the ‘Dark Nights’. The other two can be found in the Wilderness Category under Words From the Road, titled“Baptism of Fire” and “The Spirit’s Dark Night”

Many fellow Christians today, seem to be traveling through this ‘road’ or experience. Only today I received another letter from a close friend in the Lord who has entered this ‘Night’ experience. That letter makes at least 3 recently. I know these Christians very well, and know they are strong believers–one has been following Jesus for over 30 years.

I don’t know why for certain this appears to be occurring now. As I told my friend today, it may be because the time is short….that God is purifying His people today to prepare them for the coming Kingdom of God.

What I DO know, is its happening to many around me. Myself…I’ve been in this process for over 2 years. Its painful, at times lonely, and until one understands what is happening and that it is God behind it and for our own good, it can be very confusing.

One thing I’ve learned: Regardless of how alone one feels, God is there, ready to catch us if we fall: Also, when one becomes so ‘faint’ from this dark night that they want to sit down and stop, God will send a small portion of ‘manna’ to strengthen us enough to go on another day…Did he not tell us, “I will never leave you nor forsake you” ?

Enough of my ramblings…Here is another installment.

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God allows the dark night of the spirit in our lives because He wants us to experience the fullness of His Life and enjoy His presence through the complete union of our spirits.

Thus, God will allow us to remain in this dark night until His will is accomplished—until our spirit is purified and able to communicate freely and directly with Him.

He wants our spirit freed from any soulish entanglements so that it can rightfully rule over our soul.

Once this occurs, then He can begin to lead and guide us and teach us “the deep things of God.” A purified and strengthened spirit will constantly be sensitive to God’s voice, whereas a polluted, tainted or weakened spirit will miss His leading and His guiding altogether.

We have already mentioned several of the purposes of the dark night of the spirit: to expose (our often hidden) self-centered ways, beliefs, habits and value systems; to separate the soulish things in our lives from the spiritual; to purify our spirit; and to accomplish a deeper death to self. A few more goals of this night might be: …..

Freedom from Self-ownership

Not only does this dark night free our spirit from our soul’s domination, it also frees us from self-ownership. God delights to hear us say, “Do whatever You like with me, Lord, I belong to You. I abandon myself into Your hands. May all that You want and all that pleases You happen.”

The dark night of the spirit is to rid us of our own self-will, self-love, self-interest and self-energy. All our own plans and purposes, our own intellectual and emotional ways, our own egotism and possessiveness and our own inner talking, delusions and fantasies must go, so that we can rest and rely only upon Him.

“Any high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God” must go. (2 Corinthians 10:5)

The goal and purpose of this night is that we might look only to Christ for our fulfillment, our satisfaction, our security, our strength, our meaning and purpose, etc., and not to anything else. God wants us to rest in Him, not only in our enjoyments but also in our adversities.

He wants us to be able to say, may “none of these things (people, events, feelings) move me.” (Acts 20:24)

God desires that this dark night free us from all emotional entanglements, so that we can love others unconditionally without the shackles of “self.” Once we are freed from self, we no longer will have the need to judge others, be over-sensitive to them or over-react to them. Since “self has been blotted out, God will give us the ability to love, without fear of rejection or any longing for approval in return.

Instill An Unshakable Trust and Faith

The whole exercise of the dark night of the spirit is to instill in us a real spirit of faith. The goal of this night is for us to be able to walk “trusting in God,” without seeing or feeling Him, but nevertheless, knowing that He is there. When all around us is falling apart, if we can sit before Him without any questions and without any doubts, then the test of our commitment will be established.

Only after every support is taken away (house, job, friends, family, husband, ministry, pastor, church, reputation, etc.,) does our journey to real faith begin.

“[He] made Himself of no reputation, and took upon Him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, He humbled Himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.” (Philippians 2:7-8)

[Now, again don’t let this make you afraid. This does not mean that God will take away all these things. It simply means that He wants nothing before Him in our lives. If we willingly release these things to Him, He will have no need to take them. Right? However, if we remain afraid to release them to Him, it shows Him that we don’t have that unshakable trust in Him and that we do have other “gods” before Him.]

In this dark night of the spirit, God is testing our faithfulness. Will we believe and trust in Him when everything around us is in disarray? Or will we collapse in utter agony and disbelief and turn the other direction? God wants to get us to a place where we will never challenge His character or His nature again. He wants to build in us an unshakable trust and resolve so that no matter what happens in our soul, we know that He will never leave us or forsake us in our spirit. God wants us to no longer put any trust in ourselves, in others or in our circumstances, but only in Him.

The further removed we can get from sight (and from our faith relying on our sight), the more deeply we will enter into real faith and intimacy with God.

God wants us to cut off any reliance we have on “other things” besides Himself and He wants us to get to the point where we can truly say, and mean, “none of these things move me.” (Acts 20:24)

In other words, we won’t allow any of the hard things in our life “move us” from the intimacy that we are experiencing with Christ. This attitude will begin to occur when we come to realize how much God loves us and that everything He allows in our lives is “Father-filtered.”

The ultimate place He wants us to be, is where we can experience an unconditional trust and faith in Him in “all” things. This is where we will be able to say, no matter what is occurring in our lives, “Though [You] slay me, yet will I trust [You]…” (Job 13:15) “…because [You are always] at my right hand.” (Psalm 16:8)

The bottom line is, the further removed our faith is from resting on our feelings and our sight, the closer we are to true faith in God.

Abandon Ourselves to God’s Will

One of God’s most important goals during the night of the spirit, I believe, is to show us the difference between relying upon our own human expectations and presumptions and being completely abandoned to God’s will.

The turning point in my own life came when I finally realized that abandonment to God’s will and “human expectations” could not co-exist in my soul. In other words, if I put my eyes upon any other thing (any promises, any circumstances, any visions, any people) other than God and His Word, that human expectation would end up becoming, once again, disappointed hope.

Our expectation can only be in God and His faithfulness, not in some promise or vision or prophecy. When we receive God’s promises through various means, we often make the mistake of putting our hope in those things, rather than in the Creator who gave them. Our eyes, our hope and our expectation should only be in the Person of Jesus, His character and His Word.

by Nancy Missler

http://www.ankerberg.com/Articles/streams-of-life/SL1202W3.htm

9 comments on “The Goal and Purposes of the Dark Night of the Spirit

  1. Dear brother-in-Christ,

    This post really spoke to me. I guess this path is something that many Christians had gone – or are going – through, but find it difficult to talk about. Sometimes, it may be that we do not realize that God is putting us through this tunnel. It is only when we emerge from the dark “tunnel” that we understand, in retrospect, why God had allowed it.

    Thanks for your insights.

    Vincent

  2. Hi Vincent…

    My prayer last night when posting this, was that it would help someone. I’m glad it spoke to you my friend.

    Yes I agree…many do go through this season but hesitate to talk about it openly. In my own case, when the journey first began I was too confused and I confess, frightened, to understand it enough to put it into words.

    I read a little book some time ago titled ‘Deeper experiences of famous Christians’… in it are accounts [many found later in diaries and personal journals] of many of the greats of old and how they went through their own dark nights….

    Wesley, Finney, Muller, Moody, Fox, General Booth [who founded the Salvation Army]…even Bunyan himself. They never referred to the season by the same name but when reading one can see it was the same experience.

    This morning when thinking about this post, the words “keep your eyes off the waves and on me” came to me.
    Jesus won’t let us drown. amen

  3. e groenewald thanks for sharing. when you are in the process, you think you are insane. God is faithfull and good, even when you are stripped from everything. when nothing make sense.like a friend told me, it is all God, the good the bad and the ugly. been through so much, yet i see God’s hand and grace in it.

    • Glad you liked this! You’re right, you do almost feel like you’re losing your mind…or worse yet, you believe you’ve lost your way spiritually.

  4. thanks for your post. it’s been so hard, I have been going through this on and off since I was about 7. death seems like an inch away. Feels like everyone wants to get you and that one has no defenses and vulnerable. The mind feels incapable of the smallest tasks. In my case my body has given up muscle turgor. Yet through it all I feel He is there, even if I am not sure how I know him anymore. I’ve lost my compass, but I know I am on my way home right here on earth. I have lost everything and staying precariously with my children at 54. My ex has a young thing and the harassment is from every angle. Some of my problems were self made because I failed to realize what was happening. I hope I will help others go through the experience with some support, this a lonely process for which nothing prepares one.

    • this a lonely process for which nothing prepares one.

      Hi Thabi Nyide….what you said above is very true. Nothing prepares us for this dark season. It comes upon us without warning, leaving us questioning ‘what is this?’

      Some Christians seem to travel through it quicker then others…i’ve never understood exactly why. I’ve known fellow believers who have found themselves for years inside this dark night.

      The mind feels incapable of the smallest tasks…. Yet through it all I feel He is there, even if I am not sure how I know him anymore. I’ve lost my compass, but I know I am on my way home right here on earth.

      Amen. He is still there. Your stating that shows you are walking by faith. Know this much, if God didn’t know your faith was strong enough to endure this season, He would not have led you into it. This tells me He has confidence you will come out of this even stronger in your faith! Praise the Lord.

      I read a little known book many years ago titled “Deeper Experiences of Famous Christians’ by James Gilchrist Lawson, after hearing a preacher mention it during one of his sermons. After the Bible and Pilgrims Progress, this book (published in 1911) had a great impact on my walk with God. One important thing i learned was that more then a few of the men and women of God we know of from the past (John Bunyan, John Wesley, Charles G. Finney, George Muller, George Whitefield, Frances Ridley Havergal, D.L. Moody and General Booth, etc.) experienced their own dark night of the soul and/or spirit. This book is no longer under copyright so it has been put online at Internet Archives. May i recommend it? If interested you can go to this link: Deeper Experiences of Famous Christians. On the left you will see a link which says ‘read online’.

      It will greatly encourage you.

      God bless..

  5. Can I please sit here for a while:

    Dearest Lord.

    In the words of those who have gone before me, I say, “Even though the thing which I feared most hath come upon me and that which I was afraid of hath befallen me, I will continue to praise thee with my whole heart:and before the gods will I sing praise unto thee…

    I now know, where I once doubted, that the LORD will perfect that which concerneth me, that surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever….

    Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound. I was once lost but now I am found. Hosanna in the highest…

    I am everying you ARE because you love me…

    Thank you for your ancient promise, “But they shall sit every man under his vine and under his fig tree; and none shall make them afraid: for the mouth of the LORD of hosts hath spoken.”

    The dawn is breaking…

    Thank you for soothing my soul through Nancy Missler. I have been strengthened”

  6. Dawn?? Oh how the hope of it sustains me, but alas it is still so very dark. No worries, I take all suffering in joy and until I mean that 😉 knowing I am not the only believer on this journey gives me great comfort! Actually just knowing its a journey at all and not just me being left to my horrible self nature is an unspeakable grace! I KNOW that, but the pain is sometimes blinding and I forget, thank you for the reminder!

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